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Womens’ Sex Drive and Science

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A woman’s sex drive begins to plummet once she is in a secure relationship, according to research.

Researchers from Germany found that four years into a relationship, less than half of 30-year-old women wanted regular sex.

Conversely, the team found a man’s libido remained the same regardless of how long he had been in a relationship.

Writing in the journal Human Nature, the scientists said the differences resulted from how humans had evolved.

For men, a good reason their sexual motivation to remain constant would be to guard against being cuckolded by another male
Dr Dietrich Klusmann

The researchers from Hamburg-Eppendorf University Hospital interviewed 530 men and women about their relationships.

They found 60% of 30-year-old women wanted sex “often” at the beginning of a relationship, but within four years of the relationship this figure fell to under 50%, and after 20 years it dropped to about 20%.

In contrast, they found the proportion of men wanting regular sex remained at between 60-80%, regardless of how long they had been in a relationship.


The study also revealed tenderness was important for women in a relationship.

About 90% of women wanted tenderness, regardless of how long they had been in a relationship, but only 25% of men who had been in a relationship for 10 years said they were still seeking tenderness from their partner.

Dr Dietrich Klusmann, lead author of the study and a psychologist from Hamburg-Eppendorf University Hospital, believed the differences were down to human evolution.

He said: “For men, a good reason their sexual motivation to remain constant would be to guard against being cuckolded by another male.”

But women, he said, have evolved to have a high sex drive when they are initially in a relationship in order to form a “pair bond” with their partner.

But, once this bond is sealed a woman’s sexual appetite declines, he added.

He said animal behaviour studies suggest this could be because females may be diverting their sexual interest towards other men, in order to secure the best combinations of genetic material for their offspring.

Or, he said, this could be because limiting sex may boost their partner’s interest in it.

Professor George Fieldman, an evolutionary psychologist from Buckinghamshire Chilterns University College, said: “These findings seem to fit in with anecdotal studies and his explanations seem plausible.

“The rational for why a woman’s sex drive declines may be down to supply and demand. If something is in infinite supply, the perceived value would drop.”

From BBC:

How to Increase Libido with Aphrodesiacs

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I would love to tell you that simply taking Germany Sex Drops or some other libido enhancer is all you need. Then, like ‘magic’ you or your partner are sexually “on fire”. Unfortunately, the world – or you body – does not work like that. Germany sex Drops can really help you out. But the truth is this: they are just a part of the picture!

Sure, get your aphrodesiacs all lined-up. But also do this:

A) EXERCISE REGULARLY: Participating in regular exercise keeps the heart healthy – and has many other benefits. The most important is this: it increases circulation of blood flow to the genital region- and this, in turn, improves the sexual desire. Staying in shape will also make you more sexually confident and thus build self-esteem. Confidence is itself sexy!


B) REDUCE STRESSS: Stress can have a substantial negative impact on sex drivce. Treat stress regularly. How? Exercise, massage, meditation, herbal teas such as Chamomile and supplements including vitamin B complex can all help to alleviate stress.


C) NATURAL APHRODESIAC FOODS: Use natural foods to also increase libido. Super foods, like Maca are very beneficial to the libido. Ginseng increases sexual energy. Zinc supports a healthy sexual function. Physical influences such as low genital blood flow are one of the major causes for low sex drive and performance in men and women. A good female enhancer should work to increase female arousal and ability to orgasm by stimulating clitoral blood flow. How do they work? These libido enhancer’s use L-Arginine, a natural amino acid which works to increase clitoral blood flow and sensitivity. This promotes sexual arousal in women and her ability to orgasm.


D) SEXUAL TOYS/LUBRICANTS: Make sex fun! Use toys and sexual lubricants and toys to bring the thrill back. Vaginal dryness occurs with age and the onset of menopause. Still, it can be helped with the use of creams and lubricants. Creams and gels can help increase stimulation and arousal while the genitals become engorged with blood and more sensitive to touch

Best Aphrodesiacs for Women

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A healthy sex life helps nurture love and intimacy in a relationship. For centuries, men and women have tried to find substances that can enhance their sexual desire and bring back pleasure to their sex life. Aphrodisiacs are substances that help to stimulate sex drive. The word aphrodisiac comes from the Greek goddess Aphrodite, who is the goddess of love and sensuality.

Listed here are five of the best aphrodisiacs for women:

Fenugreek: This popular aphrodisiac for women was first used by the Romans, Egyptians, and Greeks. It helps in the synthesis of various sex hormones that are responsible for breast enlargement in women. Phytoestrogens found in the fenugreek seeds are said to be effective for this enlargement process. It also boosts sex drive in females. Several studies have shown that the seeds contain compounds that develop healthy breast tissue. The phytoestrogen provides a mastogenic effect that results in enlargement and roundness of the bust.

Ginseng: Ginseng is one of the best selling natural aphrodisiacs for women. In the United States, Ginseng is considered to be a prized herb that acts as a revitalizer of the body. Ginseng triggers certain biochemical mechanisms in our body that increase libido.

Arginine: Arginine is an amino acid that works as an aphrodisiac for women. Foods like nuts, cheese, eggs, meat, etc. are rich in arginine. Arginine is responsible for the synthesis of nitric oxide (NO) which increases blood flow to the genitals. Arginine reduces vaginal dryness, and stimulates orgasm in females. If arginine is taken with other supplements, it helps in increased clitoral sensation.

Tribulus Terrestris: Tribulus is an ancient Chinese and Indian herb used as an aphrodisiac. The tribulus fruit has been found to improve fertility, sexual performance, and boost sexual drive. Tribulus stimulates LH (lutenizing hormone) and FSH (Follicle stimulating hormone) synthesis and stimulates libido.

Homemade aphrodisiacs for women: Different herbal and naturally available substances can be used at home to prepare homemade aphrodisiacs for women. Try cooking food with celery, fig, or hot peppers. Use chocolate to prepare desserts. Chocolate helps to release serotonin, the feel-good chemical that helps to set the mood. The scent of vanilla excites a woman. Use vanilla scented perfumes to boost sexual desire.

If you want to make sex a pleasurable experience, try these aphrodisiacs to boost your sex drive. These aphrodisiacs can do wonders and reignite love and passion in your life.

Spanish Fly Drug: Questions and Answers: II

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OK . .. so, how Does Spanish Fly Work?

Although Hippocrates (460 BC – 370 BC), the ancient Greek physician was familiar with Spanish Fly, it wasn’t until 2000 years later, in the 19th century, that Cantharidin was first isolated by the French chemist, Roviquet, in Paris.

This substance causes irritation in the urinary tract and this irritation is understood by some to mimic sexual desire.

But Spanish fly can be dangerous?

Spanish Fly is said to be the cause of death of Simon Bolivar, Liberator of South America. In 1830 a paste of Cantharidin was applied to a his neck to treat a wart.

And Cantharidin were also intentionally used as poisons. In Naples, Rome and Sicily women sometimes used a few drops to murder their husbands.

Is Spanish Fly an good Aphrodisiac?

Yes. It is an effective aphrodisiac. Although it is also the most toxic.

Spanish Fly is illegal in the United States and many other countries for human use. But it is still used for livestock breeding. When the animals urinate the cantharidin, it produces irritation that that leads to itching and inflammation of the genitals.

Spanish Fly is Highly Dangerous and Potentially Lethal Bodily tissue that comes into contact with Cantharidin will itch and be covered in blisters.

Luckily, there is a safe, modern, solution: Germany Sex Drops.


Spanish Fly Drug: Questions and Answers: I

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How long have people used ‘aphrodesiacs’?

People have used them since the dawn of time. There are even stories in the bible about them. For instance,Genesis (20:14) tells the story of Leah who traded aphrodisiac mandrakes with her sister Rachael for the right to sleep with Rachel’s Husband, Jacob.

Of course, Spanish Fly is perhaps the most famous.

So what is the Myth of Spanish Fly?

The Spanish Fly myth is one of those stories that just won’t die. An astonishing hundred thousand people a month search for it on the internet.

What is Spanish Fly?

Well, first, it’s not a fly at all. It is derived from a beautifully colored green beetle (Lytta vesicatoria, from Greek lytta=rage and Latinvesica). It is often called the blister beetle.

Spanish Fly is not only not a fly; it’s also not Spanish. It eats lunch on tree leaves all over southern Europe and in the eastern regions of Central Asia and Siberia. These beetles like to eat the leaves of ash, white willow trees, and liliacs.

After eating, Spanish Fly beetles leave a real mess. They ooze a clear odorless substance called Cantharidin. A single drop of Cantharidin on your skin raises immediate blisters. And it’s why Spanish Fly is called the blister beetle

Spanish Fly then is made by drying the beetles and crushing them into a powder. The powder carries Cantharidin.

(part II continued in another post).

Germany Sex Drops: Questions and Answers

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Do Germany Sex Drops Work?

Germany Sex Drops claim to be able to improve sex drive. It helps increase lubrication, increase blood flow to gentials, and restore overall interest and drive in sex.

How Does it work?

It has a number of key ingredients. One key ingredient is melatonin. It is a hormone that regulates female menstruation and fertility. And fructose gives energy and water aids in the whole process.

Do other factors influence success?

Absolutely. If your partner is stressed out and worried about life in general even Germany Sex Drops cannot help. This product should be though as an important piece of the puzzle; but only one piece. Your partner should be well rested, stress free. Germany Sex Drops just aids in the process!

Are Germany sex drops a stand alone cure for lowered libido?

No. In the end, nothing is. But Germany sex drops are a great way to help what’s already there. It gives you more confidence and helps you enjoy sex again. It can kick start your system back to working order. Nothing can miraculously restore your libido in a day; it takes work and dedication.

Are Germany Sex Drops Dangerous?

No. Just stick with the dosing instructions (five drops in a drink of water, juice or coffee) you’re fine. But it’s not recommended when you’re drinking, doing drugs or pregnant. This is just common sense, for no matter how safe a product is, you just cannot predict how it will react to other outside substances or to any changes in your body like pregnancy.

If Germany sex drops are colorless and tasteless, can’t they be used illegally and immorally?

Of course they can; but so can many other enhancement products. The difference with Germany sex drops is that the woman will remember what happened, she’s not going to lose control of herself and so you will get caught. The makers of Germany sex drops will point out that sex should only be performed between two consenting adults and Germany sex drops should never be used to coerce a woman into having sex with a man.

Are Germany Sex Drops Really All Natural?

Germany sex drops is sourced from four active ingredients and they are all natural and act only as a supplement to your diet and energy levels as well as a way to improve sex drive. These ingredients are meant to improve on what is already there, not to replace anything or add anything new.

Hope this helps!

Aphrodesiac Foods: I

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Aphrodesiac Foods For thousands of years there has been a distinction between foods that increase fertility and those that increase sex drive. Nutrition was always a factor when food was scarce. Often foods that represent sexual qualities were embrace. For instance, bulbs, eggs, snails” were considered inherently to have sexual powers. Others were considered stimulating by their mere “physical resemblance to genitalia”. The ancient list includes: carrot, salvia, Anise, basil, gladiolus root, orchid bulbs, pistachio nuts, rocket (arugula), turnips, skink flesh (a type of lizard), sage, sea fennel, and river snails. The ancients suggested you steer clear of dill, lentil, lettuce, watercress, rue, and water lily.